“So, people talk about your
wedding day as being “the happiest day of your life” … sometimes it doesn’t
seem like it. Do these people realize that it takes almost a YEAR to plan this
one special day?! Come on, how is that supposed to make me feel okay? I’m
spending at least 365 days to plan this ONE day, what happens if it’s not
exactly how I want it to be? What if things go wrong? What if EVERYTHING goes
wrong? This is the definition of stress.
How am I supposed to enjoy
planning this if I am not sure if it’s even going to go well? What happens if I
forget a HUGE detail that ruins the whole day? It seems like the most stressful
thing in the world, but I guess time will tell. Especially since it’s taking up
a bunch of time to plan. I guess it’s one big waiting game.
Yes, there is a lot that goes
into planning, but I should be enjoying this… and why am I not? What am I doing
wrong? Did I make the wrong choice? How am I supposed to pick between navy blue
and midnight blue? I GIVE UP!!!”
If you’re feeling this way, you
are NOT alone. B-R-E-A-T-H-E. Everyone worries about these things, and it is
totally normal. The only way to not feel this way is to remember that you are
marrying the love of your life, and no matter what goes wrong, nothing is
changing that. There should be some calming factor there for you!
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